Advice vs. Sharing

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MAYAN MESSAGE       DAY 56

Advice vs. Sharing

Greetings, I am Cib, welcome to this unique day when Tone 4 and I merge our energies. We are here to share our wisdom and it is our desire that you listen with discernment for those things that ring true for you. At anytime, when you listen to another’s words, tune in with a discerning ear, for not all that is said is meant directly for you.

What we have witnessed within your Realm is that many of you grab onto your gurus and try to incorporate every word of their wisdom into your own Being. This causes confusion and imbalance. Be it known to you that many times those writings are layered. Some messages you may be ready for, while others will make more sense after you have attained more growth and understanding. If you have ever read a book or watched a video then returned to it at a later date and heard messages that you didn’t hear the previous time, you will know what I mean.

Today we wish to speak to you regarding discernment. It is a common practice to read something inspiring and then integrate this belief into your daily life. This is a good practice; however, it becomes a problem when someone proclaims to others that it is “the only way” and insists that others follow this practice. Many friendships and potential wonderful experiences have been thwarted due to this practice.

Be mindful that each of you walks a unique path, having different backgrounds that have caused you to develop a unique set of belief codes. Each of you may take one single document and incorporate the teachings into your life in a unique way. This was meant to be from the beginning of the creation of your universe. Problems arise when humans forget their spiritual roots and live in the illusion of separation from God and each other. We are speaking directly about judging each other and comparing oneself to others. This is the true downfall of man. Not one of you is more precious or better than another. Although some may appear to be more enlightened, they have the same human frailties as you.

Those who have attained the level of Guru or Master, have gone through the same trials and tribulations as the rest of you. They have simply chosen a narrower path, one that keeps them centered and balanced. Many of them have already had a wide variety of experiences that they no longer choose to partake in. We are talking of many lifetimes, not just the current one each of you is living.

It is common for those of you who seek enlightenment to think of yourself as more highly evolved than others. In one sense, this could be true. However, if you look upon yourself as better than another or feel the need to save those “poor souls,” it is likely you are delusional and your ego needs some adjusting.

When you enjoy and seek to help others who are less fortunate than yourself, with no expectations of reward and with no strings attached, then you are likely to be working from your heart. There has been much good done toward others stemming from the desire to save their souls and to convert them to a particular religious order. Although the intentions may be honorable, this creates imbalance.

The person receiving the food, housing, medical attention, etc. knows within their hearts that these gifts come with conditions. In order to continue to receive the gifts, which many times are their basic needs for survival, they know they have to play the game by attending church services, renouncing their native culture and such. It is likely that the ones providing the gifts feel superior because they are helping these “poor souls.” Historically, those who provide the gifts often place themselves into positions of authority, which can quickly lead to overpowering another. This is not love.

Those receiving the gifts are likely to feel suppressed and “less than.” They may have to turn their backs on many of the belief codes within their culture in order to receive their daily bread. They have two choices: to give in or to stand in their truth. Many are willing to die for their truths; what an unfortunate situation, indeed.

It is the human tendency for the need to feel superior that has wreaked so much chaos on this planet. You have the opportunity now to be consciously aware of these pitfalls and to watch your every movement in order to keep yourself from falling into this pattern.

Know fully that your Path is your path only. It is wonderful to share what you have learned with others, but quite another thing to manipulate and force your beliefs on others. Not one of you knows the full desires, intent or purpose of another’s life or why they chose to come to this Earth in the first place.

Please stop looking at others as “poor souls.” Many of those poor souls throughout history were living wonderful lives, fully in tune with Nature before others came along and forced their ways upon them. Many have been murdered because they didn’t choose to believe in the ways of their saviors. How ridiculous to be so arrogant as to think that you are needed to save another! How incredulous we are to observe the saviors killing those who don’t want to be saved!

It is just as ridiculous to see the same scenario played out when it comes to feeding or housing others and giving advice. The world would be such an incredulous place if all of you would stop giving others advice! There is a vast difference between giving advice and sharing knowledge, although it is one and the same for many of you. It is to you that we write these words.

Acknowledge that everyone is unique. Each has enough wisdom within one’s self to make choices. Even addicts can pull themselves out at any time. Know that each is living their life to the best of their ability within the belief codes they currently hold. We know that it is difficult for you to watch those you love make choices that will cause them difficulty. However, we suggest you let them do just that. You have had your experiences; allow them to do the same.

There is nothing wrong with sharing your wisdom with others. However, what we see repeatedly is something like the following. An adult daughter decides she wants to move away from her hometown and head to Hollywood to be an actress. Her mother had the same dream as a child. The mother had run away to Hollywood and had many bad experiences. She then returned home and married a fellow she went to high school with. She still feels as though she is a failure and has some depression related to this unfulfilled dream of being on stage. Understandably, she doesn’t want her daughter to go through the same pain that she went through, so she tries to talk her daughter out of it. When the daughter decides to leave anyway, the mother makes comments such as, “I won’t give you any money. I will disinherit you. You are stupid. Don’t come home whining when you fail.”

This is an example of one using their power over another in order to manipulate them to do what they want. Although the mother feels she is being kind and loving to her daughter by trying to spare her from pain, in essence, she is being manipulative. The mother’s love is skewed by her own fears and resentment. Since she has already had the Hollywood experience, she may also have a sense of superiority.

How much better would it be if the mother had simply shared her knowledge by telling her daughter the story of what happened during her dream to go to Hollywood. She might tell her daughter she is concerned, but it would be better for all if she didn’t try to manipulate her daughter’s decision. It would be wonderful if the mother shared her current discontent for not following her dream. Her honesty might be the key to giving the daughter the push she needs to follow her dream. It is too often that humans hide their true emotions from others and pretend that life is all rosy.

Quite often, those who insist on giving advice only tell part of their story. How much stronger their stories would be if they shared their disappointments and the fears they were harboring when they made those decisions. Giving advice without sharing the entire picture of the emotions that fueled their experience is similar to giving someone a roadmap that leads to a destination other than the one the person has sights on. It’s a path, but not the one the other wants to follow.

Generally, giving advice has strings attached. “I’m going to tell you how to live your life. You should listen to me because I am wiser than you. Follow my instructions and your life will be easier because you won’t have to suffer the bad things I did. If you don’t do as I say, then don’t come crying to me when you fail. Do what you want, but I must say good-bye to you.” Although you don’t always say these things when you are giving advice (even though many of you do), these are the implications of your words to the listener.

Sharing knowledge has an entirely different energy surrounding it. The storyteller is simply sharing experiences. There is no judgment, no expectation that another will follow that path and there is no need to give advice. The attitude is, “This is my story, do with the information as you wish.”

It is no wonder that many of you are prone to lives where you feel compelled to give advice, for many of your religions are based on judgmental gods based on these precepts. Take time to truly reflect on your life and how you felt when you were judged by others. It is likely you felt powerless, subjected and idiotic. This is not love.

Love is allowing others to create their own Path and to make their own choices. Many say that love is forgiving others for things they have said or done. We would like to expand your mind a little by saying that the state of forgiveness is not love. In order to forgive another, you have placed judgment on them; you have labeled their actions as right or wrong. You have placed yourself in a position as being superior over them or seen yourself as a victim for what they have done to you.

When you can see the fuller picture that you all are equal players in this drama you call reality, then you will understand more fully what we are sharing with you. There is no one to forgive. There is no thing to forgive. Everyone is simply doing the best they can in that moment. Although you may know what you are doing is detrimental to yourself or others, you cannot express love any more than you have experienced it. This is why repeatedly we encourage you to go within and discover yourself.

Consciously choose belief codes you wish to live by. Courageously face your shadows, those fears that hold you back. Once you have done this, you will learn to bless the bad things you have said or done. You will bless the wrong decisions you made. You will then know the difference between giving advice and sharing knowledge. You will then understand how detrimental it is to give advice to others.

Then you will be able to teach others in a way in which you will be heard, for your energy will be different. Your message will be received with open hearts because it is being given with an open heart. Others are more likely to listen when someone approaches them with a compassionate heart rather than a sense of “I know what is best for you.” Don’t fool yourself into thinking that you know what is best for anyone.

We give you this advice; don’t give advice! Just kidding, we do have a sense of humor and we do wish the best for each of you. At times, our Messages may seem harsh, but we speak with love and from an advantage of being outside your realm of amnesia.

We look forward to being with you in the higher Realms. Until then, call on us whenever you want support. We are with you always. There are legions of us wishing to support you in all that you endeavor to do. Speak with integrity, set clear intentions and we will support you with no strings attached. You are loved beyond all measure; know this within your hearts.

Go forth and create a wonder full day for yourself!  Cib 4

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